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Be yourselfchangethat you wantfor your relationship.

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Martin Hesterberg

Psychologist and couple therapist

Since my childhood I have been fascinated by human psychology. During school, I went on a journey deep within myself and asked “Why did I become this way?” I could find many reasons, but not enough feelings about them. So I wanted more “feeling” and got into relationships as a teenager. What I suddenly found there was an unconscious feeling of fear of myself. But at the same time a lot of love and understanding to cope with it. Over the years, I realized how happy and satisfying relationships feel when the focus is the “we” and not the “I and I.” And sometimes the “I” is placed under the “You”. For me, every relationship, regardless of whether it is a parent, partner or child relationship, means an intensive opportunity to feel more and more differently and to grow from it. Pain and joy, love and hate, trust and lies point you further and further towards yourself. As a psychologist in clinical training and during my studies, I experienced that many illness-related symptoms can suddenly disappear or become weaker if the partners overcome themselves and open up with courage and humility. As a couple therapist, it is always a fascinating and touching experience for me to see how two people find or reinvent themselves. This also means a possible separation in order to heal the “new” old relationship. I invite you to talk about your relationship with your heart and mind. Be brave. Because “those who are at a loss for language are at a loss for love.” (Dalai Lama)

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​About me

Universitäre Abschlüsse

Psychologie: Bachelor of Science an MSB Berlin

Psychologie: Master of Science (Klinische Psychologie und Psychotherapie) an MSB Berlin

Diplom- Betriebswirt (Schwerpunkt: Organisation&Führung, Personalwesen) an Freie Universität Berlin

in Approbationsausbildung nach dem Psychotherapeutengesetz

Tiefenpsycholgischer Psychotherapeut am IFP Potsdam

Analytischer Psychotherapeut am IFP Potsdam

Psychodynamischer Körperpsychotherapeut am IFP Potsdam

Zusatzqualifikationen

Paartherapeut und Familiencoach am Institut MvL Kerpen

Hypno-Therapeut Advanced Level am TherMedius-Institut Berlin

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